Unconditional love is something many people seem to have forgotten the meaning behind. Sure, it can be confusing but not as confusing as some people act like it is.
When you love someone unconditionally their flaws and quirks don’t matter. You love them despite their imperfections and you don’t get into things expecting to be able to change them. People don’t change for other people they change for themselves. You cannot make someone into your perfect match if they aren’t already your perfect match from the start.
People who love one another truly and are there for the right reasons are able to accept one another for their whole lives together, they don’t just get fed up one day and decide to leave. It just doesn’t work that way. They aren’t hypocrites and they don’t control one another. They motivate one another to become better versions of themselves but never to make them into someone they are not.
Loving your partner with your whole heart is a lot different than just being in love with the idea of them. We fall in love in many ways and it is never as clean cut or fairytale-like as we want it to be and that is okay. Not everything plays out like it does in the movies, our stories are our own to tell.
You don’t manipulate someone you truly love into doing things you want them to do and you don’t sacrifice your needs or their needs. Everyone in the relationship should have their needs met and everyone in the relationship should be content. There will be ups and downs sure, but those ups and downs won’t break you apart.
Perfection in this world does not exist except for in the form of love. Two imperfect people can love one another perfectly if the timing is right and their hearts are in the same place. You cannot jump into a relationship wanting something that you know is not there. You have to learn to love yourself and then love others before it will work.
The way you treat your partner and the way your partner treats you will dictate how things play out. It is important for you to understand that true love, unconditional love is never easy. Sometimes it will be hard and other times you might question everything but you wouldn’t change it for the world.
You will learn through unconditional love something new each and every day. You will both grow together and make plenty of mistakes along your journey. That being said, as long as you have one another’s back, everything will work out in the end. You will be willing to make some extreme sacrifices for this person and they will also be willing to do the same for you.